
Currently, we're on our way to Rome, church capital!!!
At 2:00 pm on Wednesday, May 13, 2009, I walked into my last final of freshman year. All I wanted was to get this stupid final over with because it was at the very last time slot on the very last day. Not to mention the class wasn’t my favorite. I knew I would return to a practically empty suite still having to pack the remainder of my stuff. And I knew it would be almost as sad as graduating from high school. The thing about high school summers is everyone lives close, with the exception of the annual family vacation. But in this case, I had friends returning to all parts of the country. And then there’s housing. I won’t be living with any of the people on my hall because I’ll be living in my sorority house. Since high school graduation, it’s just been a whirlwind of changes, and each one has its fun, new experiences.
For the last month and a half of freshman year, I declared two minors, attended many sorority events, wrote a lot of papers, and completed my first internship. After years of addiction to Law and Order, I declared a forensics and criminality minor. And who wouldn’t minor in Spanish, one of the world’s leading languages? I think these are the minors I will stick with, after debating over marketing, health communication, and communication in the entertainment industry.
Completing my first internship was probably one of my proudest moments of the year. I had a busier schedule and harder classes than last semester. I was even involved in all of the same extracurriculars, Trojan Vision and ATVN. And then, adding an internship on top of that…I never thought I’d make it out of freshman year alive (or at least with a good GPA)! I accomplished all that I wanted to in the end, and all of the craziness and extra work was definitely worth it.
Our last ADPi invite was Diamond Ball. It may not have been the best due to personal problems, but it was certainly the nicest venue, the best food, and the most dazzling to see. Everyone looked absolutely stunning, and the class of 2009 will definitely be missed. Before the invite, we ate at Zip Fusion, a Japanese restaurant near downtown. I devoured some of the best sushi and teriyaki beef I’ve ever had. All in all, it ended up being a great night.
Currently, I’m unpacking my stuff from my dorm and packing my suite case for my upcoming European adventure. You can follow my everyday excursions on this blog. I’ll hopefully have updates, however long, everyday depending on internet availability. GO LAKERSSSSSSS!!!
Three weeks ago, the USC community experienced the worst tragedy of the school year. Two FRESHMEN were walking back to campus from Greek Row. Neither has returned to school, but one will never. For most students I talked to, this was their first time experiencing the death of a friend. Unfortunately, this is my second since graduation. I did not personally know her, but I had multiple connections to her, including that we both worked at the bookstore on the ground floor. I have multiple emails from her asking me to cover her shifts. However, I do know Marcus, the boy that was hit and is still currently in the hospital.
When death occurs, communities are formed and relationships are strengthened. The Greek community carried the weight of this tragedy together. On Monday, March 30, a candle light vigil was held in honor of Adri and in hopes that Marcus would make a speedy recovery. Every house was represented in great numbers. We cried together and lent a shoulder to lean on. Without knowing the support of the Greek community, none of us would have been able to overcome this tragedy. It’s almost sad that the strength of a community has to be tested with such a horrific event.
I equated this incident with Alice Sebold’s novel The Lovely Bones. My favorite quote from the book is Susie’s statement “These were the lovely bones that had grown around my absence; the connections – sometimes tenuous, sometimes made at great cost but often magnificent – that happened after I was gone”. As she watched her family from heaven overcome her disappearance, Susie realizes something beautiful forms around it. All we can ever hope for in death is a positive outcome, some purpose that gives it meaning.
Personally, the hardest concept for me to get over was anyone could have been hit. Me, my best friends, anyone of my sisters. It’s almost odd that death is mostly associated with older people, when in reality, it can happen at any moment, whenever God decides that it is time to go. This experience has left me not taking anything for granted and cherishing every day and every smile.
Unfortunately, people don’t value life. And even worse, those who do have to carry that burden. Keep your heads up, USC. God bless.